Consultation
Note: Consultation and coaching take place exclusively in German and English (unless stated otherwise).
The personal consultation at the Kyborg Institute accompanies you in understanding your own feelings and conditioning better and finding your place in life more clearly. It is led by Tobias O. R. Alke (M.A. in sociology, managing director of the institute).
What it is about
The essential currents that steer our lives are, in my view, our own feelings. How we feel is strongly shaped by our childhood – by the relationship with our parents and the relationship of the parents to each other. Children from blended or separated families often find it particularly hard to position themselves clearly.
Today, moreover, many imprints come from external sources and are co-shaped by marketing and social expectations. To strengthen your own individuality, it is worth getting to the bottom of your own feelings and the patterns from your upbringing. Checklists of “objective competencies” help little here – for the waters of our feelings do not follow objective logic.
What conditioning exactly is, and how such acquired patterns can be recognised and released, are explored in more depth by the term conditioning and the method Recognising old patterns – the consultation offers the protected framework for this.
What you can work out in the consultation
- To listen again to your inner gut feeling.
- To work out the particularities of your personality from the thicket of expectations.
- To live yourself fully and define your own place.
- To make decisions out of this new self-confidence.
- To shape a perspective worth living for yourself and your family.
If what is written here speaks to you, feel free to get in touch. In a short preliminary conversation we clarify whether I can help you and whether we would like to work together on your themes.
What I promise – and what I do not
Honesty, for me, is part of the consultation. That is why I say clearly where my offer ends:
- I give no guarantees – no doubled revenue, no “saved” relationship, no perfect life at the push of a button. Such results lie in your hands, not mine.
- I do not confirm you in a victim role. My concern is that you grow out of it – not that you settle into it.
- I do not talk you into anything and do not impose a worldview on you. I offer points of view; which ones you accept is for you to decide.
What I give you is an honest, protected space in which you can speak freely, without being judged – and impulses that strengthen your own judgement. Sometimes this leads to pleasant, sometimes to uncomfortable insights. Both are part of it: better a clear insight that moves you forward than a long lingering in the uncertain.
Contact
- Phone: +49 6243 7057
- Email: alke@kyborg-institut.com
Conditions
We are happy to tell you the conditions for consultation and coaching on request – ideally in a short, non-binding preliminary conversation (see Contact above).
- Business or corporate consulting: fee individual, case by case.
Background
My consultation is founded on two worlds of experience:
- a 2-year training at the Kyborg Institute with my father D. Harald Alke as a spiritual seminar leader for Energytraining, Autogenic Training and psychocybernetics;
- a degree in sociology at the University of Heidelberg – the science of the interpersonal.
Focal points there included power mechanisms in group dynamics, ethics in coexistence and the upbringing of the child, deepened by social psychology, philosophy, anthropology, ethnology and economics. More about my background and the institute can be found under About.
Note: The consultation is personal accompaniment and coaching, expressly not a healing treatment or psychotherapy. For health matters, please consult a doctor.